My wife avoids foreplay because she hates her body

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife has become so self-conscious about her body that she avoids all foreplay.

She insists on just going straight to intercourse as soon as we kiss.


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I’m 38 and she’s 36. We have been together for eight years and always used to have a really great sex life.

But since she had the children, stopped work and became a full-time mum, she refuses to get naked and acts like making love is just a chore.

It stops me enjoying it much too, so I don’t last very long.

I think she has a perfect body and I have told her so.

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And I don’t care that she has a little belly and a caesarean scar.

How can I get her to enjoy sex again? She is making me feel there’s something wrong with me for wanting it.

DEIDRE SAYS: If she’s tired from childcare and feels unfulfilled, she will not be in a sexy mood.

Take the pressure off her by helping out more. And if she is missing work, you could perhaps support her to get a part-time job.

My support packs on Reviving A Woman’s Sex Drive and Saving Your Sex Life might be useful.

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