My kind son has so much to offer but he can’t get a girlfriend

DEAR DEIDRE: MY son has so much to offer but can’t get a girlfriend.

He’s kind, considerate and conscientious. He’s got a good job as an electrician, is in the local choir and is a scout leader. 


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He’s 20 and has told me he would love to meet someone but doesn’t know how. 

I’m his 55-year-old dad and worried he’s going to end up like my sister, who is in her early 60s and has never had a relationship.

He spends lots of time on dating websites but hasn’t had one date. 

A lot of people think he’s a loner, as he doesn’t have a circle of friends, but he craves company. 

How can I help him?

DEIDRE SAYS: He is still young so don’t panic. 

He is doing the right things being active in your local community – this is a great way to meet people and make friends.

You can encourage him to join groups and clubs when everything opens up again, ideally with people of similar age to him – I imagine most choristers are a lot older and there will be limited numbers of other adults at the scout club.

A slight change of focus might help – instead of fixating on meeting a girlfriend, which puts lots of pressure on the situation, he could focus on making friends. 

Out of these solid relationships romance often blossoms. 

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