My ex blocked and ghosted me, but now I'm expecting his baby

DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS shocked when my ex-boyfriend blocked and ghosted me and now I’ve found out I’m pregnant with his baby.

We met last year on a dating website, and we clicked straight away.

After the lockdown ended, we started seeing each other and we really got on well.


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But then, in November, after I’d spent the weekend at his place, he suddenly stopped replying to my messages.

I then discovered he’d also blocked me on social media.

I was starting to get over the shock and hurt of being dumped like this, when I discovered I was 18 weeks pregnant.

I don’t know if I should find a way to tell him, as he has made it clear he doesn’t want a relationship with me.

I’m worried he’ll reject me again – and the baby. I’m 34 and he is 36.

DEIDRE SAYS: It does not matter whether you are together or apart, he still has a legal obligation to provide for his baby financially and your child will want to know its father and is bound to ask questions about him.

Your ex has acted in a cowardly way and may reject his child or demand paternity tests, but hard as it will be for you, he needs to know.

Contact Gingerbread (gingerbread.org.uk, Helpline 0808 802 0925) they will support you with good single parent advice.

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