Hilaria Baldwin says it was hard growing up fluid and multi-cultural

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Bostonian “white girl” Hillary “Hilaria” Baldwin is still justifying her Spanish-heritage scandal — attacking critics who “devalue” her brave choice to be “fluid” and multi-cultural.

“We all get to curate our individual expressions of our cultures, languages, who we love, what we believe in, how we dress, present ourselves,” Alec Baldwin’s 37-year-old wife wrote in a lengthy Instagram post Thursday.

The mom of six — who late last year admitted, “Yes, I am a white girl” from Boston after being accused of being a fake Spaniard — said people need to either “accept” the curated persona and move on, “be curious & want to learn” or “connect & find similarities to relate to.”

“What they shouldn’t do is devalue,” she insisted, complaining that “it can feel hard to belong” when you identify as multi-cultural.

“You are constantly going back and forth, trying to be more this or more that,” wrote Hilaria, who was born Hillary Hayward-Thomas.

“You feel you have to explain why you are the way you are, trying to fit into a world of labels when there might not be one that perfectly defines you.

“You will never quite fit in because the other parts of you shape and influence all your parts,” she wrote.

“It’s not a light switch that cleanly switches on &off-more of a sliding dial that simply shifts through a rainbow of colors,” she said.

Baldwin “had to learn” all this the hard way “through a very painful experience.”

“You are valid, worthy & you don’t need to explain or get into the uncomfortable ‘prove it’ conversation,” she said in a clear reference to getting ripped online for videos showing her speaking with a heavy Spanish accent and pretending to forget simple English words.

“You don’t owe that to anyone … We need to normalize the fact that we are all unique-our culture, languages, sexual orientations, religions, political beliefs are ALLOWED TO BE FLUID,” she wrote.

She insisted that her public attacks taught her “that many people relate” to feeling multi-cultural.

“So, if you are suffering, please know that a loving group see your validity and belonging. We love & accept you, just as you are,” she wrote.

“You don’t need to be this and then that, switching, dancing to the beat of someone else’s drum. You can be 100% you all the time,” she wrote.

“Ebb & flow, in your brilliant fluidity, as your very legitimate you.”

Baldwin said her post was inspired by a “very special experience” with her bourgeois family where they “talked about how we grew up, our languages, our cultures — multi & very valid.”

“We discussed belonging & how there are people who want to deny others their right to belong,” she said of the chat, the first time she has seen her family in two years because of the coronavirus pandemic.

Husband Alec — who defended her throughout — was one of more than 11,500 people who had liked the post by Friday morning.

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